Let's say a guy named Roger is attracted to a woman named
Elaine.  He asks her out to a movie; she accepts; they have a pretty
good time. A few nights later he asks her out to dinner, and again
they enjoy themselves.  They continue to see each other regularly, and
after awhile neither one of them is seeing anybody else.

       And then, one evening when they're driving home, a thought
occurs to Elaine, and, without really thinking, she says it aloud:
'"Do you realize that, as of tonight, we've been seeing each other for
exactly six months?"

       And then there is silence in the car. To Elaine, it seems like
a very loud silence. She thinks to herself: Geez, I wonder if it
bothers him that I said that. Maybe he's been feeling confined by our
relationship; maybe he thinks I'm trying to push him into some kind of
obligation that he doesn't want, or isn't sure of.

       And Roger is thinking: Gosh. Six months.

       And Elaine is thinking: But, hey, I'm not so sure I want this
kind of relationship, either. Sometimes I wish I had a little more
space, so I'd have time to think about whether I really want us to keep
going the way we are, moving steadily toward . . . I mean, where are we
going? Are we just going to keep seeing each other at this level of
intimacy? Are we heading toward marriage? Toward children? Toward a
lifetime together? Am I ready for that level of commitment? Do I really
even know this person?

       And Roger is thinking: . . . so that means it was . . . let's
see....February when we started going out, which was right after I
had the car at the dealer's, which means . . . lemme check the odometer
. . . Whoa!  I am way overdue for an oil change here.

       And Elaine is thinking: He's upset. I can see it on his face.
Maybe I'm reading this completely wrong. Maybe he wants more from our
relationship, more intimacy, more commitment; maybe he has sensed --
even before I sensed it -- that I was feeling some reservations. Yes, I
bet that's it. That's why he's so reluctant to say anything about his
own feelings. He's afraid of being rejected.

       And Roger is thinking: And I'm gonna have them look at the
transmission again. I don't care what those morons say, it's still
not shifting right. And they better not try to blame it on the cold
weather this time. What cold weather? It's 87 degrees out, and this
thing is shifting like a goddamn garbage truck, and I paid those
incompetent thieves $600.

       And Elaine is thinking: He's angry. And I don't blame him. I'd
be angry, too. God, I feel so guilty, putting him through this, but I
can't help the way I feel. I'm just not sure.

       And Roger is thinking: They'll probably say it's only a 90-day
warranty. That's exactly what they're gonna say, the scumballs.

       And Elaine is thinking: maybe I'm just too idealistic, waiting
for a knight to come riding up on his white horse, when I'm sitting 
right next to a perfectly good person, a person I enjoy being with, a
person I truly do care about, a person who seems to truly care about
me. A person who is in pain because of my self-centered, schoolgirl
romantic fantasy.

       And Roger is thinking: Warranty? They want a warranty? I'll
give them a goddamn warranty. I'll take their warranty and stick it
right up their.... .

       "Roger," Elaine says aloud.

       "What?" says Roger, startled.

       "Please don't torture yourself like this," she says, her
eyes beginning to brim with tears. "Maybe I should never have...Oh
God, I feel so....." (She breaks down, sobbing.)

       "What?" says Roger.

       "I'm such a fool," Elaine sobs. "I mean, I know there's no
knight. I really know that. It's silly. There's no knight, and
there's no horse."

       "There's no horse?" says Roger.

       "You think I'm a fool, don't you?" Elaine says.

       "No!" says Roger, glad to finally know the correct answer.

       "It's just that . . . It's that I . . . I need some time,"
Elaine says.

       (There is a 15-second pause while Roger, thinking as fast as
he can, tries to come up with a safe response. Finally he comes up
with one that he thinks might work.)

       "Yes," he says.

       (Elaine, deeply moved, touches his hand.) "Oh, Roger, do you
really feel that way?" she says.

       "What way?" says Roger.

       "That way about time," says Elaine.

       "Oh," says Roger. "Yes."

       (Elaine turns to face him and gazes deeply into his eyes,
causing him to become very nervous about what she might say next,
especially if it involves a horse. At last she speaks.)

       "Thank you, Roger," she says.

       "Thank you," says Roger.

       Then he takes her home, and she lies on her bed, a conflicted,
tortured soul, and she weeps until dawn, whereas when Roger gets back
to his place, opens a bag of Doritos, turns on the TV, and immediately
becomes deeply involved in a rerun of a tennis match between two
Czechoslovakians he never heard of. A tiny voice in the far recesses
of his mind tells him that something major was going on back there in
the car, but he is pretty sure there is no way he would ever understand
what, and so he figures it's better if he doesn't think about it.
(This is also Roger's policy regarding world hunger.)

       The next day Elaine will call her closest friend, or perhaps
two of them, and they will talk about this situation for six straight
hours. In painstaking detail, they will analyze everything she said and
everything he said, going over it time and time again, exploring every
word, expression, and gesture for nuances of meaning, considering every
possible ramification. They will continue to discuss this subject, off
and on, for weeks, maybe months, never reaching any definite conclusions,
but never getting bored with it, either.

       Meanwhile, Roger, while playing racquetball one day with a
mutual friend of his and Elaine's, will pause just before serving,
frown, and say: "Norm, did Elaine ever own a horse?"